“The Bright Side of Failure”

June 15, 2010 at 10:04 am Leave a comment

There’s an oft told story of a happy little boy who went into a field wearing his baseball cap, carrying a bat in one hand and a ball in the other.  He stopped, squared up, and confidently exclaimed “I’m the greatest batter in the world!” then tossed the ball in the air and swung as hard as he could…missing the ball completely. “Strike one” he said.  He picked up the ball, and again tossed it in the air exclaiming “I’m the greatest batter in the world.” A second time he missed… “Strike two,” he said.  He picked up the ball again and carefully studied it…as well as the bat.  He adjusted his cap, then tossed the ball into the air for the third time, repeating again, “I’m the greatest batter in the world!” He swung with all his might…completely missing the ball for the third straight time.  “Strike three” he mumbled sadly.  Then, suddenly, a grin spread across his dusty face and he yelled, “Wow! I’m the greatest pitcher in the world!”

Often, even when we do our very best, things just don’t turn out as planned.  That’s life!  What happens next though is completely up to us.  We can beat ourselves up and become discouraged…or we can look at each failure as valuable experience.  In the process of striving toward a worthy goal we often discover our limitations.  But just as often, lying nearby in the ashes of failure are the embers of success.  There, barely visible to all but those who know to look for them, lie clues to opportunities, gifts, and talents that can lead to great success.  The key to their discovery is how we respond to failure.   If discouragement had been allowed to rule the day there’d be no penicillin, Teflon, microwave ovens, post-it notes, potato chips…or chocolate chip cookies…that’s right…no chocolate chip cookies!!!  Instead of wallowing in failure these products’ inventors were able to spot seeds of new opportunity…truly turning lemons into lemonade!

It takes practice to develop the skill of finding the brighter side of failure, but it’s a skill that can be developed by anyone.  A still greater opportunity lies in helping others discover the good amidst the bad, the wins among the losses, and the opportunities among the failures.  Whether one comes by this ability naturally or not, great leaders recognize the value in developing it, and then helping others to do the same.  Lead out by setting the example of finding the bright side of failure, and then become a great [pitching] coach by encouraging others to do the same. 

Lead on…

Cliff

 

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